I love this song. I've been thinking about it a lot lately. First heard it a few years ago at West End Baptist Church in Rock Hill, S.C.
Speaks to the soul, I believe.
I wonder if I have a soul?
I wonder why all those innocent people--298 of them--had to die in that airliner that fell out (or was shot out) of the sky over Ukraine. Burned alive. Their bodies, in many cases, reduced to tiny unrecognizable pieces.
Never again will they breathe.
Why did they die? And why so suddenly and horribly?
Never again will they take in this big, beautiful, enchanting, magnificent world.
Never again anything.
Their remains--what was left of them--began being returned to their home countries yesterday.
For whatever reason, in focusing on the tragedy of the ill-fated Malaysian Flight 17, this song came to mind. Turn your sound up and enjoy and say a prayer for the dead and their families. Maybe all 298 of them are in Heaven.
Wednesday, July 23, 2014
Sunday, July 20, 2014
Music and our memories
Sometimes we lose our memory.
We forget who we are. Close family members that we've known for a good part of our life--husbands, daughters, sons--become strangers.
We forget where we live, where we came from, what we like to do, what foods we enjoy, even how to eat or sleep or bathe.
I know such a person. It's not her fault. She is 80 and has severe dementia. She constantly talks about "going home" even when she's at her own home. Paces restlessly, seems constantly tormented, always searching (but for what?) Her friends and relatives hardly ever come to visit her. Rarely call her. Rarely make contact of any kind. It falls almost entirely on the shoulders of her only daughter to take care of her. Perhaps others don't know how to handle her memory loss and thus feel uncomfortable around her.
But now there's a glimmer of hope for those with Alzheimer's--which today affects about 7 million Americans. If we don't yet have Alzheimer's, we fear it greatly. Dread that we, too, will one day lose our precious memory.
I say it's precious, because what do you have if you've lost your memory?
Here's the hope, the fervent prayer, the miracle if it truly works:
Pipe music into the ears of an Alzheimer's patient. Let them listen to what they once loved to hear or dance to. Some of them will suddenly come alive and jive and remember.
Music can really work its magic on a person suffering from dementia, according to a new documentary--Alive Inside. Dan Cohen, head of the non-profit Music and Memory program which created the film was recently quoted: "Ninety-nine percent of these people (in nursing homes) are still sitting around and doing nothing all day when they could be rocking to their music."
Says a doctor who personally has witnessed how music can transform those with Alzheimer's: "Music has more ability to activate more parts of the brain than any other stimulus." He has seen person and after person--barely alive and seemingly living in a dark, vague world full of strangers--put on headphones, listen to the music of their youth and light up.
While not a proven cure for Alzheimer's and maybe not effective for everyone stricken with the debilitating condition, music might be key to helping restore the memory of many.
If I lose my memory, pipe me in some tunes from the Mamas and Papas, the Beatles, Toby Keith, the Four Tops and Aretha Franklin. Rock me, baby!
Meanwhile,here's an exciting clip about Alive Inside:
We forget who we are. Close family members that we've known for a good part of our life--husbands, daughters, sons--become strangers.
We forget where we live, where we came from, what we like to do, what foods we enjoy, even how to eat or sleep or bathe.
I know such a person. It's not her fault. She is 80 and has severe dementia. She constantly talks about "going home" even when she's at her own home. Paces restlessly, seems constantly tormented, always searching (but for what?) Her friends and relatives hardly ever come to visit her. Rarely call her. Rarely make contact of any kind. It falls almost entirely on the shoulders of her only daughter to take care of her. Perhaps others don't know how to handle her memory loss and thus feel uncomfortable around her.
But now there's a glimmer of hope for those with Alzheimer's--which today affects about 7 million Americans. If we don't yet have Alzheimer's, we fear it greatly. Dread that we, too, will one day lose our precious memory.
I say it's precious, because what do you have if you've lost your memory?
Here's the hope, the fervent prayer, the miracle if it truly works:
Pipe music into the ears of an Alzheimer's patient. Let them listen to what they once loved to hear or dance to. Some of them will suddenly come alive and jive and remember.
Music can really work its magic on a person suffering from dementia, according to a new documentary--Alive Inside. Dan Cohen, head of the non-profit Music and Memory program which created the film was recently quoted: "Ninety-nine percent of these people (in nursing homes) are still sitting around and doing nothing all day when they could be rocking to their music."
Says a doctor who personally has witnessed how music can transform those with Alzheimer's: "Music has more ability to activate more parts of the brain than any other stimulus." He has seen person and after person--barely alive and seemingly living in a dark, vague world full of strangers--put on headphones, listen to the music of their youth and light up.
While not a proven cure for Alzheimer's and maybe not effective for everyone stricken with the debilitating condition, music might be key to helping restore the memory of many.
If I lose my memory, pipe me in some tunes from the Mamas and Papas, the Beatles, Toby Keith, the Four Tops and Aretha Franklin. Rock me, baby!
Meanwhile,here's an exciting clip about Alive Inside:
Wednesday, July 16, 2014
Men and women
Who can know what makes men and women tick and sometimes color outside the lines?
It happens all the time.
Makes no difference who they are or how much money they have.
Power and status seem irrelevant when a man (or a woman) decides to stray.
Think of a few of the thousands of examples (all of these from the rich or famous):
1. Ex-NY Gov. Eliot Spitzer and Rebecca Woodard
2. Ex-SC Gov. Mark Sanford and Maria Bellen Chapur
3. U.S. President Warren G. Harding and Carrie Fulton Phillips
4. Ex-U.S. Senator and presidential candidate Gary Hart and Donna Rice.
5. General David Petraeus and Paula Broadwell
6. U.S. President Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinski
7. U.S. President John Kennedy and who knows what her name was?
8. Jim Bakker and Jessica Hahn.
9. Anthony Weiner and Sydney Leathers.
10. Beloved TV journalist Charles Kuralt and secret mistress Patricia Shannon (whose photo seems to be hard to find on the Internet):
Below is an old photo--from the late 1970s or early 1980s, I believe--of Charles and Patricia:
And the infamous list goes on. More names than I can list or care to chronicle even in cyber space (where space seems to be infinite).
All of them sultry, steamy, sensuous. All ripe, seductive fodder for the press.
Some have long since ended. Warren Harding, for example, was our country's 19th president; that was so long ago that he could have been on the Titanic. Could have fought in WWI. Could have personally known the Wright brothers.
We never, ever talk about Harding today. But that all changed a few weeks ago when a press-described "treasure trove of love letters" emerged between Harding and his mistress Carrie Fulton Phillips.
In one of them, the president wrote: "I love you more than all the world, and have no hope of reward on earth or hereafter so precious as that in your dear arms, in your thrilling lips, in your matchless breasts, in your incomparable embrace."
Men and women-even those in the most committed relationships--sometimes stray.
That's what they do. They stumble and fall and become bad. As the Bible says (paraphrasing here): The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.
Such is life. It makes things interesting. When people have the libidinal itch, they want to be scratched--in the worst (or best) way.
What names would you add to my list?
Speaking of doing it, here's a scene from a J-Lo movie that will get your blood flowing:
It happens all the time.
Makes no difference who they are or how much money they have.
Power and status seem irrelevant when a man (or a woman) decides to stray.
Think of a few of the thousands of examples (all of these from the rich or famous):
1. Ex-NY Gov. Eliot Spitzer and Rebecca Woodard
2. Ex-SC Gov. Mark Sanford and Maria Bellen Chapur
3. U.S. President Warren G. Harding and Carrie Fulton Phillips
4. Ex-U.S. Senator and presidential candidate Gary Hart and Donna Rice.
5. General David Petraeus and Paula Broadwell
6. U.S. President Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinski
7. U.S. President John Kennedy and who knows what her name was?
8. Jim Bakker and Jessica Hahn.
9. Anthony Weiner and Sydney Leathers.
10. Beloved TV journalist Charles Kuralt and secret mistress Patricia Shannon (whose photo seems to be hard to find on the Internet):
Below is an old photo--from the late 1970s or early 1980s, I believe--of Charles and Patricia:
And the infamous list goes on. More names than I can list or care to chronicle even in cyber space (where space seems to be infinite).
All of them sultry, steamy, sensuous. All ripe, seductive fodder for the press.
Some have long since ended. Warren Harding, for example, was our country's 19th president; that was so long ago that he could have been on the Titanic. Could have fought in WWI. Could have personally known the Wright brothers.
We never, ever talk about Harding today. But that all changed a few weeks ago when a press-described "treasure trove of love letters" emerged between Harding and his mistress Carrie Fulton Phillips.
In one of them, the president wrote: "I love you more than all the world, and have no hope of reward on earth or hereafter so precious as that in your dear arms, in your thrilling lips, in your matchless breasts, in your incomparable embrace."
Men and women-even those in the most committed relationships--sometimes stray.
That's what they do. They stumble and fall and become bad. As the Bible says (paraphrasing here): The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.
Such is life. It makes things interesting. When people have the libidinal itch, they want to be scratched--in the worst (or best) way.
What names would you add to my list?
Speaking of doing it, here's a scene from a J-Lo movie that will get your blood flowing:
Thursday, June 12, 2014
Signs of our times
On the windows of storefronts. In front of churches. On shirts and motor vehicles and next to roads and beside mailboxes and on the sides of trucks.
Everyone, it seems, is in the business of creating or posting signs.
The last few months, in my travels in Tennessee, Georgia, South Carolina, North Carolina, Kentucky, Illinois and Missouri, I've taken pictures of some of the more interesting signs I've encountered.
Here are a few:
Wednesday, June 4, 2014
Granddaughters
They are a handful, but I will miss them as I head back south.
Having that time with them has given me pause for thought.
What exactly is a granddaughter?
I learned a few things from my time with these precious little ones (ages 3 and 4).
Granddaughters are cute, smart, unpredictable, messy, rambunctious, wide-eyed and always curious.
They also like dogs and cats and balls and blocks and stuffed animals and fountains in the park that they can dance about under as the water splish splashes off their little heads.
They romp and play and bump into things and get hurt and get back up and bump and jump and play some more.
They begrudgingly take naps.
They jabber their own frequently undecipherable language (but they seem to effectively communicate with one another.)
Granddaughters love McDonald's and Chick-fil-a and playlands.
Granddaughters have a hard time keeping their shoes on, and it's tough to get a good picture of a granddaughter, because they're always jostling.
A granddaughter will wander off in a heartbeat in a store. You gotta watch 'em every second.
They love a bedtime story. They don't like picking up their toys.
(And so what!) A bunch 'a toys lying on the floor ain't hurtin' nothin'.
Granddaughters are little bundles of joy that are a gift from God.
Friday, May 30, 2014
So many signs everywhere we turn
Have you noticed a proliferation of signs lately?
Signs are cropping up everywhere--on churches, storefronts, cars and trucks, yards, bulletin boards...
I'll blog more about this soon but for now there's an old tune that keeps coming top of mind when I see so many warnings, predictions, celebrations, shout-outs, exhortations.
Turn up your sound and listen and reflect on what signs are doing to or with us:
Signs are cropping up everywhere--on churches, storefronts, cars and trucks, yards, bulletin boards...
I'll blog more about this soon but for now there's an old tune that keeps coming top of mind when I see so many warnings, predictions, celebrations, shout-outs, exhortations.
Turn up your sound and listen and reflect on what signs are doing to or with us:
Wednesday, May 28, 2014
A quiet stroll among sleeping heroes
Two days ago marked my 65th Memorial Day. 
I observed it by walking--for almost two miles--among and around the sleeping souls of dead heroes at the East Tennessee Veterans Cemetery.
Walking about an hour each day is my daily routine, but this particular stroll was special.
There, at the little cemetery about 25 miles east of Knoxville, Tenn., (a short drive off I-81) I felt the essence of Memorial Day.
Old Glory flapped proudly in a breeze, while hundreds of simple white markers, each with an American flag, seemed to stand at attention.
This a solemn, peaceful, reverential place. People kneel and pray and hold hands and take pictures here. They touch the markers, close their eyes and remember their loved ones. Or maybe they just come here to pay their respects on Memorial Day.
Because this is where heroes slumber but should never be forgotten. Many of them served in one of the World Wars, in Korea, Vietnam, Afghanistan or Iraq. They were soldiers, airmen or seamen. Men and women sleep here.
Heroes all of them.
I never knew Jay Rogers Daniel Jr. (May 17, 1956-March 7, 2014) but his headstone says this U.S. Army seargent was a Vietnam veteran. He was also a "BELOVED FATHER, BROTHER AND PAPAW."
Likewise, I never had the honor of knowing Albert Charles Stephenson (Oct. 14, 1956-March 1, 2014). This Vietnam veteran who served in the U.S Air Force is now "SAFE IN THE ARMS OF GOD," according to his tombstone.
Thank you for your service, Jay Rogers Daniel Jr. and Albert Charles Stephenson, and rest in eternal peace in the arms of angels in Heaven.
Last but not least, I remember my Dad, Lawrence C. Timbs, who died at the age of 90 in January 2012. He retired from the U.S. Air Force and saw action in World War II and Korea. And my Mother, Dixie Nadine Jenkins Timbs, Dad's ever-devoted helpmate who died on July 4, 2013. They do not sleep at the East Tennessee Veterans Cemetery; instead, they rest peacefully about 100 miles away near Elizabethton, Tenn.
Happy Memorial Day, Mom and Dad.
I observed it by walking--for almost two miles--among and around the sleeping souls of dead heroes at the East Tennessee Veterans Cemetery.
Walking about an hour each day is my daily routine, but this particular stroll was special.
There, at the little cemetery about 25 miles east of Knoxville, Tenn., (a short drive off I-81) I felt the essence of Memorial Day.
Old Glory flapped proudly in a breeze, while hundreds of simple white markers, each with an American flag, seemed to stand at attention.
This a solemn, peaceful, reverential place. People kneel and pray and hold hands and take pictures here. They touch the markers, close their eyes and remember their loved ones. Or maybe they just come here to pay their respects on Memorial Day.
Because this is where heroes slumber but should never be forgotten. Many of them served in one of the World Wars, in Korea, Vietnam, Afghanistan or Iraq. They were soldiers, airmen or seamen. Men and women sleep here.
Heroes all of them.
I never knew Jay Rogers Daniel Jr. (May 17, 1956-March 7, 2014) but his headstone says this U.S. Army seargent was a Vietnam veteran. He was also a "BELOVED FATHER, BROTHER AND PAPAW."
Likewise, I never had the honor of knowing Albert Charles Stephenson (Oct. 14, 1956-March 1, 2014). This Vietnam veteran who served in the U.S Air Force is now "SAFE IN THE ARMS OF GOD," according to his tombstone.
Thank you for your service, Jay Rogers Daniel Jr. and Albert Charles Stephenson, and rest in eternal peace in the arms of angels in Heaven.
Last but not least, I remember my Dad, Lawrence C. Timbs, who died at the age of 90 in January 2012. He retired from the U.S. Air Force and saw action in World War II and Korea. And my Mother, Dixie Nadine Jenkins Timbs, Dad's ever-devoted helpmate who died on July 4, 2013. They do not sleep at the East Tennessee Veterans Cemetery; instead, they rest peacefully about 100 miles away near Elizabethton, Tenn.
Happy Memorial Day, Mom and Dad.
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