Friday, February 19, 2010

Beautiful children and grandchild


This note is to brag about my three children and brand new grandchild. (See photo with this post.)

I know I'm biased but I have three of the best kids in the world.

From left in the photo: Crawford of Melbourne, Fla., (my oldest), daughter Dorothy of Durham, N.C.,and daughter Elizabeth of Nashville, Tenn.

The little one is Lucy, daughter of Dorothy and Patrick.

She's also my granddaughter. Lucy is a month old, now weighs a bit more than 9 pounds and is bright eyed and alert (as you can see.)

She cannot NOT be smart. She takes after Dorothy and Patrick and Elizabeth and Crawford and her papaw (yours truly.)

Love 'em all.

Happy one-month birthday, Lucy!

Thursday, February 18, 2010

Close call with Rock Hill Police Department



Every semester I tell my students not to be out and about late at night in their cars in Rock Hill.

"You will be stopped by a police officer, and you will end up getting some sort of ticket," I say.

That's because the police in Rock Hill are bored, especially late at night. They're scouring the community--its byways and highways--looking for trouble.

I guess that's their job--to find trouble and arrest people or fine people.

The rest of my spiel to the students goes something like this: "I, on the other hand, being an older person with gray hair, can be out late in Rock Hill, and even if I'm stopped by an officer, I probably won't get a ticket. That may not be fair, but that's the way it is. . . You get cut a bit of slack (respect?) when you're older... The police just accept that you're probably NOT doing anything illegal..."

Last night I was almost proven wrong.

I had been at the university till about 10:30 p.m.; then had stopped for a snack at McDonald's.

Time I'm driving home it's a bit after 11.

In the rear view mirror, I see a big car suddenly dart out from a side road.

He's close behind me in a few seconds, blue lights flashing.

I pull over to a grocery store parking lot.

After about a minute (maybe he's checking my license plate??), the RHPD officer gets out of his cruiser and slowly, very slowly walks to my car.

Then the request: "Let me see your driver's license and registration."

I give it to him, but really have a hard time finding my registration. I fumble and scrounge through the glove compartment. I find a crumpled document and hand it to him. The window down and cold air and wind biting, I wait while he returns to his cruiser.

He's a nice cop--toboggan on his head, African-American, soft spoken--doing his job.

While he's in his car, checking on this and that, I wait...

I'm pondering what I've often preached to my students: "If I get stopped late at night, the cops in Rock Hill won't give me a ticket, but they will give YOU a ticket. It's not fair, but that's just the way it is..."

He's still in his car. I walk up to his window and say this: "Officer, how fast was I going?"

"You were doing 51. Speed limit is 35."

"I apologize, officer. I always try to obey the law. I wasn't feeling good. I'm tired and I just wanted to get home. I need to take my medicine." (This is all the truth.)

He asks me where I live and why I've been out so late.

I tell him.

He keeps checking and writing.

"I didn't even think my car (a VW Beetle that you see with this blog post) would go that fast," I say.

He laughs.

A good sign.

He hands me a warning ticket.

"You have a good rest of the evening, sir," he says.

I thank him--profusely. And then I promise him that I'll do something, somehow to boost the police department.

That's partly what this blog post is about.

Saying thanks to a good-hearted Rock Hill police officer who gave an old guy a break.

Close call. I don't plan to be on the road at that unseemly hour again. I will be "beddy-by," curled up under the covers, reading myself to sleep. Where I should be and need to be that late in the evening.

Bottom line: Respect the police. Fear the police. Understand the police. Appreciate the police.

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Salute to Vivien Thomas



Bet most people have never heard of Vivien Thomas, and I wouldn't have either, but for an award-winning feature story about him in one of my course textbooks.

The story--"Like Something the Lord Made"--was written by Katie McCabe for The Washingtonian , a city magazine in Washington, D.C.

McCabe's story about Vivien Thomas and Dr. Alfred Blalock of Johns Hopkins Hospital won the coveted National Magazine Award for feature writing in 1990.

Have you or a member of your immediate or extended family had open heart surgery? (I had a double bypass in April 2008).

If so, you should get down on your knees and give thanks to Vivien Thomas; he never went to college, let alone medical school. But starting out as a lab assistant for Dr. Blalock, who became interested in doing heart surgery after researching the hearts of dogs, Thomas figured out how to solve the problem of "blue babies." He was right by Dr. Blalock's side in the surgery room at Johns Hopkins Hospital when Blalock performed the very first human heart surgery (on a blue baby) in 1944. Thomas walked Blalock through the surgery, telling him what to do and how.

The rest, as they say, is history.

Why hasn't Vivien Thomas gotten his due regard in American history?

Here's a man who was a true giant in medicine, training many heart surgeons at Johns Hopkins.

He's the man behind the man (Dr. Blalock) who changed American medicine.

An African-American, he should be getting as much recognition today (which happens to be part of Black History Month) as the other heroes of African American culture. Vivien Thomas is right up there, in my opinion, with Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and Malcolm X.

He's a hero, and most of us have never heard of him.

Read McCabe's story. And now there's a 2004 movie--"Something the Lord Made"--that you can get from Amazon.com

Click here for a few scenes from that powerful film.


And click here for my favorite scene.

Sunday, January 31, 2010

He's the best


I believe I have the best dog in the world.

See him, a loveable gentle sheltie, in the picture with this blog post and on the right of this page (below my profile info.)

Gave him a bath in medicated shampoo yesterday (recommended to me by a dog dermatologist).

He couldn't have been better.

Ears back and his hair completely matted down in suds and water, Roadie took it like the dog that he is.

HE ALWAYS TRIES TO BE GOOD. It's as if he cannot NOT be good.

I know this all sounds a bit hokey, but he's the best.

Now getting up in years (9 years old? 10 years old?), Roadie loves to eat. When I go to the kitchen and get a can of anything out of the cupboards, there's Roadie with his big brown eyes looking up at me. Waiting, staring, wanting...

Even when he's asleep, if I quietly get a can from the shelf and start opening it, here he comes, trotting to my feet and staring upward, tongue beckoning--waiting for a snack.

He loves to be petted. He tries to talk to you when you speak to him.

Really. (I wonder if anyone could ever learn dog speak.)

And that big bushy tail wags when he's happy.

Last week, I took him for a stroll inside the Agape Senior Assisted Living Center in Rock Hill. I had visited a friend, 90, there a few weeks ago, and noticed that she had lots of photos and stuffed animals of dogs in her apartment. She got emotional when she reminisced about her pet, which she could not bring with her a year or so ago when she had to leave her house.

When I brought Roadie to her, she couldn't have been happier. Same with the other folks at the assisted living.

You think they're just sitting there numbly in the lobby without a thought in their heads? Think again. Whenever Roadie approached, a crippled, frail hand would put a cane down and pat him on the head. Or a wheel-chair bound woman wearing a sweater would roll to where he was and gently stroke his fur. Roadie brought smiles and laughter wherever he trotted.

What is there about a dog and human beings? And how does a dog trigger warm memories of our life?

Roadie and me.

Me and Roadie.

Life is better because of Roadie.

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Papaw Larry and Lucy Brooke




My first grandbaby is Lucy--born yesterday in Florida.

She came into this world at 6 pounds and 13 ounces.

She's beautiful and everyone is swaddling her.

Can't wait till I get a chance to hold the little rugrat.

Welcome to the world, Lucy!

Sunday, January 10, 2010

Icy, cold, snowy weather in mountains of Tennessee





Over the Christmas and New Year's holiday, I spent a chunk of time in the mountains of east Tennessee (near the N.C. and Va. borders).

Truly a stunningly winter wonderland up there, but the frigid temperatures made doing just about anything harder and FASTER.

Some mornings I woke up to the outside thermometer registering 6 degrees above zero.

Then add the wind chill (always seems to be breezy in the mountains) and you get a sense of the cold.

It was too cold for dogs or cats.

Too cold for people.

But not for birds or cows or deer.

I saw plenty of them doing their thing outside.

The pictures accompanying this blog post were snapped by my cousin Larry Walsh, a frequent visitor to east Tennessee (specifically the Stony Creek community a few miles outside of my hometown of Elizabethton, Tenn.)

Larry, now living in Panama City, Fla., has plans to ride out the sunset years of his life in Stony Creek (where he shot these spectacular photos.)

Beautiful snow and cold imagery, cousin.

Thanks for the photos!